Move in wholesomeness, it affects your daily choices.
“When your soul is full, you turn down even the sweetest honey. But when your soul is starving, every bitter thing becomes sweet.”
Proverbs 27:7 TPT
The choices we make is a reflection of our inner satisfaction. Exposure to disfavorable circumstances in life, are not to set us on the path where we only believe in the worst for oursleves, but rather to show us that we deserve better and can aim for the best. Beloved, do not allow the broken relationship make you believe you are accustomed to brokenness, do not allow the broken home make you believe you are accustomed to the same. Do not allow your horrific past make you believe you are accustomed to mishaps.
To set off on the part of wholesomeness is to understand that you are not a victim of your circumstance, situations happened for you and not merely to you. Heal, tune your mind, believe you are meant for good things and you attract the same. When you operate from wholesomeness, you choose for your betterment not to your detriment.